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Understanding the Testing ADHD in Children: The Child ADHD Assessment Process in Alberta
When you notice your child struggling with focus, impulsivity, or hyperactivity, it can feel like navigating a maze without a map. You might wonder, "Is this just a phase, or could it be something more?" Testing ADHD in children is a crucial step toward understanding these behaviors and finding the right support. In Alberta, the process of assessing ADHD in children is designed to be thorough, compassionate, and tailored to each child's unique needs. Let me walk you through w
Marinda Venter
7 hours ago4 min read


Why Understanding How Your Child Thinks Matters
The CAS2 measures how kids think, not just what they know. Unlike IQ tests, it assesses Planning, Attention, Simultaneous, and Successive processing to reveal learning disabilities, ADHD patterns, and reduce bias for diverse learners—turning results into real, targeted classroom strategies.
Marinda Venter
3 days ago7 min read


Why "Because I Said So" Doesn't Work With ND Teens
"Because I said so" tends to backfire with neurodivergent teenagers—including those with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), ADHD, or Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)—because their brains genuinely need logical context to process and comply with requests. Research-backed alternatives, like collaborative problem-solving and declarative language, are far more effective. If you've ever said "because I said so" to your teenager and watched the situation immediately get worse, you'
Marinda Venter
Sep 68 min read


Hidden in Plain Sight: Why Autism Gets Overlooked in ADHD Tests
Dual Diagnosis Autism is often missed during ADHD assessments because the two conditions share symptoms like inattention and social difficulties, older diagnostic rules once banned a dual diagnosis, and many autistic people—especially girls—mask their traits. As a result, autism can go unrecognized for years after an ADHD diagnosis. Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) show up together far more often than most people realize. Rese
Marinda Venter
Aug 307 min read


Understanding the Overlap Between ADHD and Autism
Quick answer: ADHD and autism spectrum disorder (ASD) co-occur frequently because they share genetic and neurobiological roots. Individuals with both conditions tend to face greater executive function deficits, lower quality of life, and higher family stress than those with either diagnosis alone. Effective care requires careful assessment and a cautious, individualized treatment approach. For decades, clinicians treated attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and aut
Marinda Venter
Aug 277 min read


Some People Learned to Hide So Early They Forgot Who They Are
Hidden in Plain Sight: Autism, Masking & Late Diagnosis That sentence describes a large number of the autistic adults assessed in clinical settings every year. They do not arrive describing sensory pain or social exhaustion. They arrive describing anxiety, burnout, or a vague, persistent tiredness that nobody has been able to explain. The hiding started so young that it stopped feeling like hiding. It simply became how they exist in rooms with other people. This post is for a
Marinda Venter
Aug 187 min read


When ADHD Goes Unnoticed: The Real Cost of a Late Diagnosis
ADHD LATE DIAGNOSIS IN WOMEN ADHD is frequently missed for decades, especially in people who learn to compensate quietly. A late diagnosis can bring relief, grief, and—most importantly—a new framework for understanding yourself. Recognizing ADHD allows people to replace years of self-criticism with effective strategies, appropriate support, and a clearer sense of how their brain actually works. A child described as "dreamy." A teenager labeled "unmotivated." An adult who keep
Marinda Venter
Aug 137 min read


Why Some Students Struggle to Read—And What to Do About It
Why Some Students Struggle to Read—And What Helps Quick answer: Reading difficulties affect an estimated 5–10% of the population and stem from a range of neurological, cognitive, and environmental factors—not a lack of effort or intelligence. Early identification through psychoeducational assessment is the most effective way to understand why a child is struggling and what support they need. Reading is one of those skills most adults take entirely for granted. You look at a w
Marinda Venter
Aug 79 min read


Understanding ADHD: The Power of a Diagnosis
Quick answer: An ADHD diagnosis doesn't create ADHD—it names something that already exists. Without an accurate explanation for their struggles, children often absorb inaccurate ones instead, like "lazy" or "careless." The right label replaces shame with understanding, giving kids the support and strategies that actually fit how their minds work. For years, a child struggles to sit still in class. They forget simple instructions, lose things constantly, and react more emotion
Marinda Venter
Jun 266 min read


Understanding the Impact of a Late Autism Diagnosis
The Hardest Part of a Late Autism Diagnosis For many adults diagnosed with autism later in life, the most painful part isn't the diagnosis itself—it's looking back and realizing that traits they were criticized for, like sensory overwhelm or social exhaustion, were signs of an autistic brain all along. A late diagnosis can't rewrite the past, but it can reshape how you understand it. You reach your 30s, 40s, or beyond. Then one day, something clicks. The things people critici
Marinda Venter
Jun 256 min read


The ADHD Child Nobody Invited—And How to Change That
The ADHD Child Nobody Invited—And How to Help Quick answer: Many neurodivergent children, especially those with ADHD or autism, experience repeated social exclusion that shapes their self-worth well into adulthood. Parents of neurotypical kids can help by teaching empathy, modeling inclusion, and encouraging their children to invite peers who struggle socially. One small invitation can transform how a child sees themselves. The child who never gets invited notices everything.
Marinda Venter
Jun 196 min read


Understanding ADHD and Its Management Tips
Living with attention challenges can feel like trying to catch butterflies in a windy field. Sometimes, your focus flutters away just when you need it most. If you or someone you care about is navigating this experience, understanding ADHD and its management can be a game-changer. Together, we’ll explore what ADHD really means, how it affects daily life, and practical ways to manage it with kindness and confidence. What Is ADHD? ADHD, or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disord
Marinda Venter
Jun 164 min read


Autism and Bullying: The Hidden Cost of Forcing Sameness
Autism and Bullying Quick answer: Many autistic people are bullied for traits they never chose—how they communicate, move, or experience the world. Over time, this teaches them that being themselves is unsafe, leading to masking, anxiety, and exhaustion. The solution isn't asking autistic people to change. It's teaching acceptance and building belonging. Bullying leaves marks that outlast the playground. For autistic children and adults, those marks often run deeper than most
Marinda Venter
Jun 146 min read


Understanding Defiance in Children with ADHD: A Compassionate Approach
"I am completely mentally exhausted by the constant defiance. My child keeps telling me and his teachers 'no' or 'I won't do it,' and then breaks down crying hysterically when things don't go his way. I know oppositional behavior is a huge part of ADHD, but I just need to understand why he is doing this and how to handle it." If those words resonate with you, you are far from alone. Raising a child with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) brings unique joys, but i
Marinda Venter
May 107 min read


Autism and Menopause: Navigating the Transition with a Late Diagnosis
For many women, the transition into menopause brings a host of physical and psychological changes. However, for autistic individuals, this biological milestone often acts as a catalyst that dramatically amplifies previously manageable challenges. The intersection of menopause and autism creates a complex dynamic, one that frequently leads to an unexpected midlife revelation: a late autism diagnosis. The Amplification of Autistic Traits Menopause involves significant hormonal
Marinda Venter
Apr 302 min read


Parenting Teens with ADHD: From Conflict to Connection
Parenting a teenager is a challenging experience under the best of circumstances. When you add Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) to the mix, everyday routines can quickly escalate into intense power struggles. You might find yourself constantly repeating instructions, arguing over unfinished homework, or feeling completely exhausted by the lack of cooperation. Beneath the surface of this frustration, your teen is likely struggling just as much as you are. What f
Marinda Venter
Apr 56 min read


Is It Perimenopause or ADHD? Navigating the Midlife Hormone Storm
Is it Perimenopause or ADHD? Navigating Symptoms in Your 40s You have managed to keep the plates spinning for decades. You built a career, raised a family, and maintained a social life, perhaps feeling like you were paddling furiously underwater while looking calm on the surface. But recently, something shifted. The coping mechanisms that worked in your 20s and 30s are suddenly failing. The brain fog isn't just a mist; it’s a thick wall. You sit at your desk, staring at a spr
Marinda Venter
Feb 16 min read


Why Your ADHD Was Missed in the 80s (It Wasn't Just Neglect)
If you are one of the thousands of adults receiving an ADHD diagnosis in your 40s or 50s, you are likely wrestling with a complex mix of relief and resentment. Finally, there is a name for the executive dysfunction, the overwhelm, and the "brain fog" you have battled for decades. But alongside that clarity often comes a burning question: Why didn't anyone notice this sooner? It is a clinically and emotionally heavy question. Looking back at your childhood in the 1980s or 90s,
Marinda Venter
Jan 185 min read


Compassionate Parenting for Teens with ADHD
Tired of power struggles with your ADHD teen? Learn how to shift from conflict to connection with these compassionate, brain-based parenting strategies. You ask your teen to empty the dishwasher. It seems like a simple, reasonable request. But instead of action, you get a blank stare, a heavy sigh, or perhaps an explosive argument about how you’re always "on their case." You’re left standing in the kitchen, exhausted, wondering how a five-minute chore turned into a battle for
Marinda Venter
Jan 116 min read


When ADHD Meets Extended School Absence: Grade 12 Challenges
Missing nearly a month of school presents significant hurdles for any Grade 12 student, but when undiagnosed ADHD enters the equation, these challenges become exponentially more complex. The combination of executive functioning difficulties and extended academic gaps creates a perfect storm that can derail graduation plans and future opportunities. Understanding how ADHD symptoms interact with prolonged school absence is crucial for educators, parents, and students themselves
Marinda Venter
Oct 29, 20256 min read
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